Hi,
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This is a workflow that Terraform does not support at all. Can you elaborate on why you need to do this? If it was normal for everyone using the thing you are working with to want this, the developer of the Terraform provider would have to already have designed a workaround.
Please explain the interdependency between these objects in words, as it doesn’t seem to be shown in the sample code you have provided.