How update a resource without check/change its dependencies

Terraform CDK for Terraform
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I have a resource that uses some attributes of another resource and I want to update this particular resource (using -target commando option) without check/change the dependency resource. Whats happen today is when I update this particular resource, the terraform change the resource dependency together.

There is some way to do what I need?

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If you target a resource it will also include any other resources that change as a result of that resource changing. So dependant resources will get changed too.